She uses a system of rewards and penalties. Some days, when you've done particularly well, you're rewarded by not being penalised. |
I wasn't a service oriented submissive when I started out, but my SO sent me on an orientation course. |
The other things are negotiable. Just go ahead and negotiate - but you do have to be in position first, OK? |
In any marriage, learning when to communicate - and when to stay silent - is as important as learning how. |